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Deborah Liu is the president and CEO of Ancestry, a board member of Intuit and co-founder of the nonprofit Women in Product. Previously, at Facebook she created Facebook Marketplace, and at PayPal, she headed the eBay marketplace product department. She lives with her husband, three children and mom in California. Her book, Take Back Your Power: 10 New Rules for Women at Work, was just published by Zondervan.
Handsell readers your book in 25 words or less:
For every woman who grew up competing on the uneven playing field, this book is the battle cry you need to learn to thrive within today's workplace.
On your nightstand now:
Originals by Adam Grant
The Founders by Jimmy Soni
7 Rules of Power by Jeffrey Pfeffer
The Conversation by Robert Livingston
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain
Favorite book when you were a child:
The Bible. I read it cover-to-cover multiple times as a child, though I have to admit, I skipped over the "beget" sections.
Your top five authors:
Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner; Kim Scott; Adam Grant; Jared Diamond; Dan Ariely.
Book you've faked reading:
My son and I started reading Why We're Polarized by Ezra Klein--it's long! I had started it once already because I am a political analysis junkie. I loved Klein's narrative and deep research, but it's fairly dense. The same goes for The Better Angels of Our Nature by Steven Pinker. I actually got a chance to meet the author, and it was amazing, but his book is a challenging read. I love books on history and how humankind has evolved, but again, these can take quite a while to get through.
Book you're an evangelist for:
I love The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. I was an early adopter of the book's philosophy. When it came out in the '90s, I read it, shared it with my then-boyfriend, and now we have been married over 20 years! My two love languages are acts of service and gifts, and his are words of affirmation, quality time and physical touch. We are total opposites, and we work really hard on this. The kids have different love languages, too. It's just a really great way to examine how you look at the world and at love.
Book you've bought for the cover:
I haven't bought a book for its cover in so long! I buy a lot of books online, so the cover factors into the decision a lot less. I will usually listen to a podcast, hear about an interesting book, and then buy it online. I did get one book, The Founders by Jimmy Soni, because it has pictures on the cover of people I know from back when we worked at PayPal!
Book you hid from your parents:
Any novels. My parents were not big into novels. We were Christian, so we read a lot of Christian books, but I also loved to read fiction: mysteries, romance, thrillers, sci-fi--anything I could get my hands on at the library! I was a voracious reader, and I would check out a stack of 10 books at a time and read ALL of them.
Book that changed your life:
The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. It's very easy to go through life and not have a purpose. Its central theme is, "Why are you here on earth? What's your purpose?" That really centered me. It was a wake-up call to not drift through life, and to be intentional about the choices I made. I read it so long ago, but I still remember it.
Favorite line from a book:
My husband and I read a lot of Chuck Swindoll's books when we were dating. My favorite quote of his is, "I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it."
Five books you'll never part with:
Power: Why Some People Have It and Others Don't by Jeffrey Pfeffer. I speak to Professor Pfeffer's class every year at the Stanford Graduate School for Business, and every year, I read this before we go in. It was the inspiration for the book I wrote, which is a contemplation of women's approach to power.
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Chapman's book teaches us how we can demonstrate care and love with regard to how others receive it. My husband and I have used these insights throughout our two-decade relationship.
The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion by Jonathan Haidt. It's a really good explanation of how right-leaning and left-leaning people look at the world differently.
Influence by Robert Cialdini. This was a powerful book about persuasion that everyone should read, both to learn how to influence and to understand the influence others have on you.
Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg. Sheryl Sandberg gave me the "lean in" talk to convince me to join Facebook. And it transformed my career. An important message for women in the workplace.
Book you most want to read again for the first time:
Freakonomics was a delightful read. I love its unconventional look at the world through behavioral economics. I mostly read nonfiction, but I adore Loveboat, Taipei by my friend Abigail Wen. It's a coming-of-age story about an Asian American girl. It was great to see a book where the most important thing about it wasn't the fact that the character was Asian American, but rather the people, their relationships and how they grow and evolve.
Genre of book you wish there were more of:
I wish there were more women who wrote nonfiction! I was working through this list of "great nonfiction you should read," and it was all male authors. I then realized that most of the books on my shelf and on my TBR list were also authored by men.